The movie begins in 1977 when Harry and Sally, both recent graduates of the University of Chicago, share a long car journey to New York City, where they both intend to start their new lives. They part ways at the end of the journey, almost unaware of each other’s existence until their next encounter occurs five years later. They meet in an airport, by sheer coincidence, and the scene that follows is perhaps the movie’s most memorable one, as Sally demonstrates her ability to fake an orgasm in front of Harry in the middle of a crowded restaurant. This scene was perfect, as it showcased Meg Ryan’s unparalleled comedic timing and brought to light the struggle of female pleasure in sexual encounters.
Harry and Sally both receive a glimpse of a happily married life with Marie (Carrie Fisher) and Jess (Bruno Kirby), respectively. They realize that in some way, they are meant to be together. However, their fears and insecurities prevent them from acknowledging their love for each other until it is almost too late.
Harry and Sally’s famous line “Men and women can’t be friends,” questioned the boundaries of playful relationships between the opposite sex. It conveys the idea that the fear of losing a friend and the fear of introducing romance have always been two parallel concepts, while one does not necessarily cause the reign of the other. After all, friendship and love are both about wanting to connect with someone on a deep and intimate level, and the end goal remains the same. The question remains unanswered but prompts the viewers to introspect their own relationships.
The dialogue and conversations that occur throughout When Harry Met Sally… are some of the film’s biggest strengths. The conversations happen at different stages of Harry and Sally’s friendship and relationship, and each one builds on the one before it. The film’s climax is achingly romantic, where Harry, for the first time, admits to his love and goes on to propose to Sally, stating an adorable tangent that their differences make him whole.
In conclusion, When Harry Met Sally… sets itself apart from other romantic comedies by emphasizing friendships as the most reliable basis for future partners. It recognizes that relationships require effort, patience, and understanding, and the process begins with friendship. The movie also goes on to reiterate that the possibility of unrequited love should not be a reason to stop pursuing meaningful relationships, whether they blossom into romance or remain stable friendships. It emphasizes the idea that love is worth the effort and the waiting, and it can inspire us to be better versions of ourselves. When Harry Met Sally… is a movie that continues to resonate with audiences worldwide and captures the essence of true love in its purest form. It is a story that reminds us to never give up and that true love may be closer than we think.