Traditionally, femininity and masculinity are often strictly defined, and girls are expected to conform to a certain feminine ideal. Little girls are given dolls to play with, pink clothes to wear, and are often told to be polite and gentle. But for some girls, this doesn’t feel right – they may prefer playing sports or running around outside, getting dirty or climbing trees. They may shun dresses and skirts in favor of shorts and t-shirts, or opt for short haircuts rather than long, flowing locks. These are the traits that have come to be associated with tomboyism.
For many tomboys, they grow out of this phase and become more conventionally feminine as they grow older. However, for others, being a tomboy is an integral part of their identity. Some tomboys continue to dress and act in a masculine manner all their lives, while others grow up to identify as non-binary or as lesbians. Indeed, tomboyism is often associated with LGBTQ+ culture, as it often challenges gender norms and expectations.
While many people have no issue with girls who exhibit masculine traits or interests, others view tomboys as a threat to society. They argue that girls who stray from traditional feminine roles may grow up to be too independent and strong-willed, potentially causing trouble for society at large. This mindset often leads to discrimination against tomboys, with many being bullied or ostracized by their peers. Additionally, many tomboys may internalize this discrimination and feel ashamed of themselves, leading to mental health problems down the line.
However, despite the discrimination faced by tomboys, there is growing acceptance and celebration for these girls. Books such as “The Bridge to Terabithia” and “The Hunger Games” depict strong, independent tomboy characters who are loved by readers. Additionally, actresses such as Kristen Stewart and Emma Watson have publicly identified as tomboys in interviews, showing that tomboyism is a part of many people’s lives.
In conclusion, while tomboyism may be controversial, it is not a negative thing. Girls should be allowed to explore their interests and express themselves in any way they choose, without fear of discrimination or judgment. Tomboys are an important part of our society, and should be celebrated for their individuality and strength. Whether they grow out of it or not, tomboys are valuable members of our community, and their presence should be appreciated.