1. Sit Appropriately
When you reach the table, make sure you sit appropriately by pulling your chair towards the table. Your elbows should never be on the table, and you should sit up straight.
2. Napkin
When you sit down, the first thing to do is to unfold your napkin and place it on your lap. This is an important etiquette, and it also prevents any spillage onto your clothes.
3. Using Cutlery
Always use cutlery, whether you are using a spoon, fork, or knife. Also, make sure you know what cutlery to use for different courses of the meal, and use the right one. When you use your cutlery, avoid making any noise or scraping sounds.
4. Wait for Others to Begin
It is a good manner to wait for everyone to be served before starting to eat. If you are waiting for someone, make sure you don’t start to eat before they get their food.
5. Avoid Speaking with Mouth full
Avoid speaking with your mouth full or holding food in your mouth while talking.
6. Chewing Gum
Never chew gum while eating; it is rude.
7. Do Not Reach For Foods
If you want any particular food, ask someone to pass it down the table rather than reaching for it, as this can cause accidents such as knocking over glasses or plates.
8. Drink Appropriately
Drinking beverages at the table should also be done properly. Never talk with your mouth full while drinking or take a sip when someone else is talking. When you are finished drinking, place your glass back to its place carefully.
9. Toasting
When someone proposes a toast, only lift your glass for a toast if you wish to join in, otherwise leave it there. Drink only if the occasion demands and make sure you drink responsibly.
10. Using Mobile Phones
Mobile phones should never be placed on the table or kept in your lap while you eat.
11. Handling Utensils
When you have finished eating, place your utensils on the plate or bowl in a particular position, which indicates to the wait staff that you are finished.
12. Cleaning your Hands
It is imperative to clean your hands before sitting at a table; it also includes grooming your hair before having seated.
13. Excuse Yourself
If you need to leave the table for any reason, excuse yourself from the table politely.
14. Commending the Chef
The chef prepares the meal. Therefore it’s important to take time and praise the chef for their hard work in making such a delicious meal.
15. Paying the Bill
If someone has officially invited you to have dinner, it is good to offer to pay the bill. However, if you are out for dinner with a group of friends, offer to pay your share or contribute to the cost.
In conclusion, good manners displayed at the table shows a character of respect and appreciation for others. Whether you are dining at home, a café, or a formal restaurant, having good manners shows that you are poised and considerate.