1. Be patient
Although this seems like an easy thing to do, it is, in fact, the most challenging. Patience is the key when it comes to managing the whims of the elderly. Many people complain that their elderly loved ones are easily agitated or stubborn, but being patient is what is needed to help the elderly calm down and feel more comfortable. Take it a day at a time, and remember to breathe.
2. Listen actively
Older adults still want to feel heard and respected. They want to be acknowledged for their minds to work and their feelings to be validated. Therefore, it is essential to listen to them, allow them to share their on-going problems or unresolved issues. Be patient, focus on what they say, ask questions where needed and, if you do not understand, do not hesitate to ask for clarification.
3. Empathy
Empathy is an essential element when dealing with the elderly, especially those in their twilight years. Put yourself in their shoes, think of how you would feel if you were in their position. Imagine how it would feel to have limited physical capabilities, be isolated from the community and family members. Remember that the elderly are human beings, and they deserve respect and compassion. When you show them empathy, they feel valued and respected.
4. Maintain a daily routine
Older adults thrive when they are on a daily schedule. It gives them a sense of purpose, and it helps them maintain their independence. A daily routine minimizes changes that may upset them and leads to negative behaviors. Also, consistency will help the elderly to establish a sense of familiarity with their routine, thus reducing anxiety and confusion.
5. Encourage socialization
Socializing is vital, not only for the elderly but also for everyone’s emotional well-being. Encourage the elderly to engage in social activities within the community, such as volunteer work, hobbies, and even attending social events hosted by senior centers. Furthermore, socializing helps to keep the elderly’s mind engaged, which prevents cognitive decline.
In conclusion, managing the whims of the elderly is not an easy thing to do. However, by practicing patience, listening actively, empathy, maintaining daily routines, and encouraging socialization, you’ll find that communicating with your elderly loved one becomes more comfortable. Remember always to take care of yourself as well. Caregiving is a challenging task, and you can’t help another if you are not taking good care of yourself. Remember to take breaks, focus on your mental and physical , and don’t hesitate to ask for help when needed.