1. Examination of conscience
Before going to confession, children must examine their conscience and reflect on their , words, and actions. They must ask themselves questions like, “Have I been kind to my siblings?” “Have I told lies?” “Have I been respectful to my parents and teachers?” “Have I been selfish?” This self-reflection will help children recognize their faults and take responsibility for their actions. It will also help them prepare for the confession and enable them to confess their sins with sincerity.
2. Acknowledge their sins
Children must acknowledge their sins and confess them to the priest. They must be truthful and specific in recounting their sins. For example, instead of saying, “I was mean to my brother,” they can say, “I hit my brother when he took my toy.” This honesty will help them receive God’s forgiveness and also motivate them to make amends for their actions.
3. Express
Children must express their sorrow for their sins and show a genuine desire to change their ways. They can say a of contrition such as the Act of Contrition, which goes, “O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended You, and I detest all my sins because of Your just punishments, but most of all because they offend You, my God, Who are all-good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of Your grace, to sin no more and to avoid the near occasion of sin.”
4. Accept penance
After confessing their sins, children must accept the penance given by the priest. The penance may include saying some prayers, performing an act of kindness, or making a commitment to do something that will help them grow spiritually. The penance is a reminder that sin has consequences but also an opportunity for growth and renewal.
5. Resolve to avoid sin
Finally, children must resolve to avoid sin and strive to live a virtuous life. They must make a conscious effort to practice virtues like kindness, honesty, respect, and generosity. They must also seek the help of God and ask for His grace to lead a holy life. Making a good confession is not just about asking for forgiveness but also about making a commitment to live a life that pleases God.
In conclusion, children must do five things to make a good confession – examine their conscience, acknowledge their sins, express contrition, accept penance, and resolve to avoid sin. Confession is an opportunity for children to grow in their faith, seek forgiveness, and make a fresh start. Encouraging children to make a good confession will help them develop a sense of responsibility, honesty, and humility that will benefit them in all aspects of their lives.